Episodes

What would you do if you'd been severely injured and couldn't feel of keep connected to your partner? This was the 7th year our Panel on Relationship, Sexuality and Quality of Life presented for the Coalition to Support America's Heroes and addressed those issues. Where Sexuality and Religion Co-Exist, How Wartime Affects Sexuality, Reclaiming Sexuality in the Face of Disability - For You and Your Partner, Mating and Dating. Panel of 4 esteemed experts share what they know works for others so th...

A hilarious guidebook by a comedic writer who has walked the convoluted and less than straight road of digital dating. And the real reason for many on these sites despite their claims of seeking connection falls into one of the following categories: Facetime Sex, Kink Sex, Tantric Sex, Great Sex, Dreadful Sex oh and more LOL real adventures in digital dating. Red flags on a profile, How to showcase yourself and how to be true to what YOU want. Fleischer's experience of being on just about every ...

My colleague Michael Russer and I cover his new Milennial-focused Kickstarter based program kickstarterlaunch.com starting October 8th, for his book and program 'Helping Men Become What Women Love. This powerful never-before-created program is a step by step Guide for singles and couples to create EXTRAORDINARY INTIMACY through emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. Michael's own journey through impotence to Extraordinary Intimacy was the starting point for this completely unique model for ...

I start with a discussion of Emma Watson's presentation at the UN then to one of my most commonly asked questions - Whether it is a woman or a man - I am asked by people who are single "How do I make myself be more appealing? How do I 'DRAW' in my soul mate, my partner?" So this is HOW TO INSTANTLY INCREASE YOUR SEX APPEAL. One of your most powerful and seductive behaviors is your ATTENTION. How you pay ATTENTION, ATTENTION is a gift, it is a powerful energy that only one person can gve to anoth...

I laughingly start with a video of Older adults reacting to the 50 Shades of Grey Trailer. They had a great range of responses that reflects the general population in the HuffPost Gold for the Soul. Reading Necessary Endings by Henry Cloud and his wisdom also applies to our sex lives and relationships. We have all seen there are absolutely times when we should have ended a sexual relationship, business relationship and or a personal relationship. Also Want to Be Kissed The Way You Want? Lou talk...

EroticTalkPhoneSex.com Enterpreneur Sharon Summer and I talk about what happens within an erotic phone call business. What are the best things people get from erotic talk? Masturbation with a friend. How does one get started in this? How and Who trains you? Sharon's world is a blend of part business, part sex, part eroticism. Who are their customers? Unique characteristics of some customers. Adult virgins are one group. Growing interest trends? How are you different from cam girls?

To start I describe what the Grapefruit Blowjob by Auntie Angel is and why it might have appeal for some. Summer is sex and relationships so as we head into the last days of summer are you looking for what you want in your life? If so activate the Law of Attraction. Ask yourself WHAT you REALLY want. What and Who do you really love? Take my quick quiz and see where you're focused. Want to know if you have a purpose in being here? Read Proof of Heaven. Want the sex life you want - Are you doing p...

Ever dreamt about doing that person at work and you wake up worried you're going to cheat or secretly wnat out of your relationship? Not necessarily!! It may be for arange of other reasons. Ever had a nocturnal orgasm? One where you're asleep and it happens? Kinsey's research found 40% of women have had them with women in their 40's being the largest number. Want to create erotc dreams? Read erotica just before going to slepp and keep a VERY deatiled Dream journal. Sometimes you'll be surprised ...

Lou covers her favorites of the week - Does an affair doom a relationship? Not necessarily according to Esther Perel. My previous guest Dr. Pepper Schwartz agrees with Perel that we now have changing ways of dealing with non-monogamy. Why I am curious people are judging the 50 Shades film solely by the trailer and in many cases they really don't have the right to do so. My new guilty pleasure married at First Sight a social experiment to see if science can help choose your ideal partner. Drawing...

Kim Airs of Grandopenings.com and Bubble Love is my guest post our attending the Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo (ANME) held semi-annually in Los Angeles. We talk what's new in sex toys, trends in products the new ZANE line, CRAVE make your own vibe promotion which is a great product, SPORTSHEETS new product line a new line for plus size women.

The fabulous Pepper Schwartz, PhD Sociologist at U of Washington and I discuss her in depth AARP survey and what surprised her in the responses. We talk about her latest book The Normal Bar and in looking at trends what surprised me is what she would study if she was new coming into this field. THEN we talk about her part in my NEW guilty pleasure. Pepper is the expert sociologist on the TV show MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT.

Lou weighs in on SCOTUS Supreme Court Rulings re Hobby Lobby, Articles that aren't what they seem to be suggesting in telling you watch TV have more sex, and another that tells you men want more foreplay. Both aren't what they seem to be and Lou tells you why.

June 23, 2014 Show # 623 Lou gives her take on Sex in the Media. The Sudanese Christian woman released, about Dov Charney getting fired from American Apparel, why she feels George Clooney chose Amal Alamuddin, importance of Jill Duggard's wedding, NastyGal.com's Sophie Amoruso's book Girl Boss. The wacky news items of Perez Hilton and Benjy Bronk's prostate exam from a weight loss bet on the Howard Stern show to the student getting stuck in the vagina/vulva sculture in Germany. How to REALLY rea...

Lou Paget gives you the University of Minnesota program in Sexual Health's 10 point Orgasmic IQ Quiz. She discusses Sex In The News, Great Lover's Behavior, and FAQs. That we need to take care of your Loves, her bff Dr Sherri Tenpenny lost her beloved husband in January and her experience has been a lesson for those who love. Lou's most recent Yourtango.com videos just posted on www.youtango.com

Lou does her recap of SEX IN THE NEWS and FAQ she is asked about SEXUAL BEHAVIORS. - CBS Sunday Trans Children video and why it's important. Mark Schoen's TRANS documentary film great insight of Trans children and adults. - Faking orgasm questions - how can you tel? - How do I choose a lubricant? - Fantasies - worried about fantasizing with husband. Difference between fantasies and fetishes. How can I introduce Fantasies into my relationship? - My Seven YOURTANGO.COM video segments, www.yourtang...

Kristin Newman - Hilarious interview discussing her memoir, WHAT I WAS DOING WHILE YOU WERE BREEDING, that every woman can identify with. A professional woman who realizes traveling is the key and insight to herself and her heart. Part personal journey, part heart journey, part sexual exploration. Want to know who the best lovers are? Released May 20, 2014. These are Life Lessons in a Showrunning Comedic Writer's Memoir. Perfect for armchair travelers and fans of comedic memoirs. WHAT I WAS DOIN...

1) Santa Barbara Kilings are they tied only to his virginity? 2) Decades long National Case of Slut Shaming - Monica Lewinsky. I give this woman kudos she is a walking talking example of media slut shaming and bullying. Shame on Kenneth Starr 3) Learning how to read sex articles - Weird thing that makes people Unsupportive of Gay Marriage - look at who and why the article is wrriten and then follow the money - who benefits from it. Look at the site publishing it, PLOS ONE is an open paltform wit...

Dr. Wilde is a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a California MFT. Sexuality is such a personal world with so much public social policy that Troubling Turn-Ons can occur for many individuals. We'll discuss a range of Troubling Turn-ons. How they differ from Fantasies. Dr. Wilde can be reached at www.winstonwilde.com and http://desertsexcenter.com/staff. 1) What determines a Troubling Turn-On? 2) How Does Turn-On differ from Fantasy? Or does it? 3) Examples of cases. Smoking, Can orgasm only with ...

Lou Paget SEX IN THE NEWS...May 12/2014 AKA Become a Shrew Consumer of Media Sex Info. 1) Checkout this link to my contribution - http://www.everydayhealth.com/news/what-when-shes-not-interested-sex 2) Wide Hipped Woman have More Sex Partners...oh really??? 3) Women trying to sing while orgasming 4) Willow Smith her mother Jada Pinkett Smith's real comment 5) Michael Sam openly gay in NFL draft - his job is football his heart knows who he loves 6) Conchita Wurst Eurovision winner 7) Coming Out K...

My guest is a treasure trove of "What's New and What's Current in the world of Sexuality Education and Sex Therapy. www.drhernandochaves.com. Dr. Chaves is a CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, human sexuality professor and Askmen.com sex columnist. His philosophy is centered on empathetic, sex-positive support with a special emphasis on pleasure enhancement. His work with erotic communities focuses on lifestyle introduction, exploration, & acceptance of unique of sexual expression, proce...

Kim Airs has been in just about every area of commerce related to sexuality. We'll discuss her history in sex toys and retail, new trends, what she sees as new on the sex toy horizon AND her newest venture BubbleLove!!!! A brand new to the market innovative sex toy for women who love to use water for self-stim. She was the owner of Grand Openings, Sex educator, Entrepreneur, did Sex Toy Parties, is a Sex Toy and Product Developer and Consultant, and in her free time Blogger for XBiz and rides he...

My guest tonight Jean Franzblau Produced, Wrote and Plays 20 different characters in her sexual autobiographical play COMING OUT KINKY: A Grown-Up Story We talk about all things Kinky. How did you know were Kinky? What questions should someone wondering if they are Kinky should ask themselves? How did this change your dating and relationships? Did your Kinky Sex Preferences change...Yes!! COMING OUT KINKY is Jean's emotional, physical and political sexual awakening, at times hilarious others sca...

Oh GOOD I’ve got your attention!!! Lara Catone and Diego Wallraff are California State Board of Education Certified SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORKERS. What does a sexological bodywork session look like? What are the main issues that bring people to Lara and Diego? Are these sessions only in person? Is anyone nude? How does this differ from Sexual Surrogacy? How long does it take? How did you do your training and where? Both Lara Catone and Diego Wallraff have extensive backgrounds in body healing therapie...

Lou covers Sex in The Media, from Lady Gaga to Bisexuality, World's Worst Dater to Porn Studies, Duck Dynasty's anti-gay stance to Gay Marriage in Michigan...and why the mindset behind both is the same. Given we are inundated by media presented 'factoids' often from the same news feed services it behooves us as consumers to adopt a Caveat Emptor attitude and become our own informed consumer of information especially in the arena of our sexuality.