Episodes

Bringing Back The Connection AKA Parents Being Partners again. This show is for all the moms and dads who want to inject some newness, some passion, some woo hoo factor. My guest Ally Loprete walks in the shoes of mom, wife, blending 2 careers and family so she'll be my 'expert' parent asking: How do other Parents Do IT? Where can we get new ideas? Is spontaneous sex EVEN possible now? What does science say about maintaining sexual connection? Single parents and sex? Pregnancy sex, why did Jessi...

Entrepreneur Bonnie Gayle co-creator of Sex Butter, a unique organic sexual enhancement product. This is one of the best enhancement products I have seen and had my peri menopausal field researchers test in a long time. For women and men Sex Butter is made with coconut oil, shea butter, cocoa butter, jojoba oil and grape seed, it is paraben-free and hormone-free. Sex Butter isn't just for sensual play, solo or partnered it is also beneficial for your general skin's health. wwww.sexbutter.net sex...

Lou welcomes Winston Wilde, Doctorate of Human Sexuality and Licensed Marriage Family Therapist. Dr. Wilde is a Beverly Hills and Palm Springs seasoned prominent sex therapist who specializes in erotic minorities. Translation, he is the go-to therapist for kinky people, modern couples and polyfolk. Those into BDSM/kink and polyamory are all growing communities. There are very different nuances and understandings that a truly kink friendly therapist has to have. We'll discuss those and more, lots...

Lou welcomes adult toy industry marketing executive Jenny Tse of Icon Brands to discuss the inside story on all that titillates our sensory fancy. Straight from the expert's mouth Jenny and I will discuss this industry's trends, impact on people's sexual function and perceptions of their sexual selves. Which is the best vibe? Do straight men really like anal toys? Who comes up with these ideas and how many make it into production? Where Jenny sees career opportunities for anyone wanting to marke...

PART B with Seattle, WA based sex therapist Diana Wiley Ph.D. who is one of my favorite guests. Diana and I will discuss online dating + 40s, red flags in conversation with a date, AARP survey results for sexual satisfaction, current trends in sexuality, why masturbation is healthy, female brain vs male brain and sexual stimulation. Diana is the co-host of Progressive Radio Network’s Wiley & Sage, Sex Love and Laughter. http://www.progressiveradionetwork.com/dr-diana-wiley-billy-sage. www.drdian...

Tonight Los Angeles based Gretchen Kubacky, Psy.D., Health Psychologist, and I will discuss what we as sexuality educators can do for the growing population of those with a chronic health condition. How we can best guide with information and validate their experiences and give this population options, ideas and recommendations so they can be sexual on THEIR terms. We will discuss erasing the idea that if you have a physical health issue it renders you asexual. Couldn’t be further from the truth....

Seattle, WA based sex therapist Diana Wiley Ph.D. is one of my favorite guests. She will share her 25 + years of Best Ideas, Techniques and Practices couples can use to stay connected, begin a connection or rejuvenate a connection. An expert on AGING & SEXUALITY, Dr. Diana highlights that lust, laughter, and love need to be kept as priorities in order to improve longevity and enhance quality of life as we evolve and mature. Her comment is “Any age is a great age to strip off the sexual "shoulds"...

My guest will be Monterey, CA based LMFT and D.S.T., Stephen Braveman. A multi-talented sexuality therapist who specializes in a wide variety of psychological and sexual issues. We will start with the heavy stuff and discuss his work with men who are Adults Molested as a Child and his part in Oprah’s final show featuring men who had been sexually abused. We’ll talk about the healing and hope in the PSA “You are Not Alone” from the Monterey Rape Crisis Center. Stephen also specializes in gender a...

As an advocate for good science to support our overall general health and specifically our sexual health I rely on hand picked scientific professionals to explain to me or discuss with me impacts and or potential sexual function impacts of medical or pharmaceutical products. My twin sister Di (Dede) Paget R.N., B.N. is one of those rare few. She and I will discuss how to determine good science for you and your family, what to be aware of when you read studies, Marcia Angell. M.D.'s book "The Tru...

Imagine being an IRS Revenue Agent for 23 years and discovering your passion is practical Sex Education for people of short stature and with disabilities. That describes Marylou Naccarato. Marylou lives by the credo, "There are those who wait for life to happen and those who make it happen." As a professional woman, mother, and short person Marylou believes everyone is disabled or differently-abled in one way or another. It is a matter of whether your condition is internal or external and regard...

Ray Stubbs becoming a Sexual Shaman has been the evolution of his in depth and varied career as a sexuality educator and trained massage therapist. Ray realized there were many other levels of being able to merge, as one does at orgasm. He speaks of 4 ways to merge one's energy with another: on the physical, spirit, light and or soul planes. He describes the transcendent orgasmic levels of light, spirit and soul orgasms. His practical step-by-step seminars taught on skype worldwide can easily gu...

Sue Whitaker describes the parallel worlds that exist for entrepreneurs between your personal relationship and how you relate to your business. Her tips for how to fall in love with your business, how to deal proactively and constructively with competitors. The best advice her successful older brother gave her, DWGO - Deal With it and Go On. Check out her show on toginet.com, thebusinesslovemaker.com or suewhitaker.com

Through her show Fertility Forum and her counseling practice Phyllis Martin has stepped in to help guide couples and their relationships through the emotional gauntlet and unknowns of Infertility. Little did she know at 28 she would be part of the epidemic of infertility and become and expert on assisted fertility procedures, egg and sperm donors, adoption options and Child free living options. Through her own experiences she is "I've been in your shoes" counselor that couples can relate to. She...

My guest tonight is Susan Crain Bakos author of The Orgasm Loop Orgasm Loop: The No-Fail Technique for Reaching Orgasm During Sex. As a sex columnist and author of over 20 books on sexuality Susan was well acquainted with Sex Question #1. Women wanting to know how to have an orgasm during intercourse. Susan describes how she linked the three elements crucial for the Orgasm Loop recipe. Blend liberally, Fire Breathing, Contractions of the PC muscle and a martial artist's focus to move energy to o...

Lou and Bill will discuss how he combined his Baptist clergy training with sexuality education as a result of his parishioners asking him questions he couldn't answer. In order to be a more effective minister he did his PhD in sexuality education. The importance of being able to see where people are coming from when dealing with a religious - sexuality conflict and the 3 types of sexual value systems. That we are all born sexual and spiritual. Best questions parents can ask themselves when prepa...

Lou and Mou discuss how Mou has established her unique therapy practice to address non-typical monogamous sexual lifestyles. How Mou got into this work, how same sex relationships can enhance our sexuality, and enhanced hers, and what she sees most commonly with couples and dealing with sexuality within relationships, and how societal views affect and have affected all of the above. How her musical training and hypnosis training augment the impact of her therapy.

Lou and Dr. Pacik will discuss and describe his new FDA approved study of intravaginal injections of Botox together with progressive dilation under anesthesia to treat vaginismus. Vaginismus is a condition where women are unable to have intercourse without discomfort. This is a relationship and intimacy robbing condition affecting 1 to 7 percent of women worldwide. For many women they spend years being misdiagnosed and receiving wrong therapeutic treatments. Dr. Pacik describes the entire treatm...

Lou and Wendy Strgar, CEO of Good Clean Love, discuss what it actually means to be an organic lubricant. Why and how she started her company. It was from a very personal focus of maintaining intimacy in her marriage and discovering she was allergic to other lubricants that were petrochemically based and contained parabens. How the consumer has to be their own ingredient sleuth. The development of her Aphrodisiac Love Oils and how immediate and important our sense of smell is to our sex lives. We...

My guest tonight is Dr. Linda Mona, Licensed Clinical Psychologist who has advocated for the sexual rights and sexual expression of people with disabilities for over 15 years. Dr. Mona and I have done presentations for severely injured soldiers (female & male) on how to have them connect if single, reconnect if partnered and validate their sexual selves apart from their disability. For anyone who may be dealing with, or knows someone who is, the unique sexuality issues associated with disability...

Dr. Whipple is one of the leading researchers and authors on female sexual pleasure, function and orgasm. Co-author of The G Spot, Science of Orgasm and The Orgasm Answer Book. Lou and Beverly cover her naming the G spot,the wide variety of female orgasms that she wanted to validate, orgasms with spinal cord injury made possible by the vagus nerve that bypasses the spinal column, the complete lack of any published studies to support the G Shot marketed to unsuspecting women

Lou and Dr. Rubinstein of Sarasota Cosmetic Surgery, discuss the #1 reasons women and men undergo cosmetic surgery and how that impacts their sexual enjoyment and experiences. The blending in his practice of Allopathic and Alternative modalities to help a client's body and mind get maximal benefit. Use of anti-aging treatments and bio-identical hormones. The study of energetics when treating clients and how that impacts sexual experiences. The clients he won't treat. When labioplasty and penile ...

My guest will be Brynne Zaniboni, a coordinator and presenter for Los Angeles based High School Sex Educator. She is the first line of science based responsible choice information for these students to help prevent unintended pregnancies and STIs. Small classroom interactive presentations with the 'anonymous' questions allow students to get reality-based sex education in an environment that is peer positive and comfortable for them. Free iTunes download after.

Dr. Sherri Tenpenny is respected as one of the country's most knowledgeable and outspoken physicians regarding the impact of vaccines on health. She and Lou will discuss why one does not need Gardasil or Ceravix vaccines to prevent cervical cancer. How nutrition may be a curative solution for breast health. Dr. Tenpenny is an outspoken advocate for free choice in healthcare, including the right to refuse vaccination. As an internationally known speaker, she is highly sought after for her ability...

Dr. Neil Cannon and I will discuss current media articles and trends in sexual health. Neil Cannon has a Doctorate in Human Sexuality, a Master's in Public Health and a Post Graduate certification in Marriage, family Therapy as well as a Post Graduate Certification on GLBT, Gay, Lesbian, Bi-sexual & Transgender Family systems. Demographics of kink people in US. Current online sexuality articles and what they really are discussing. Who his toughest clients are and why? The similarity Kink and van...