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Hello, and welcome to today's episode of Thrive after 45.
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I'm Denise Drink Walter heart whisperer, midlife mirror and mentor.
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Every week I am honored to share energy and space with inspiring guests whose stories reflect.
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So many possibilities of thriving beyond 45.
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Together we'll uncover the whispers of the heart, the power of midlife transformation, and the wisdom that fuels expansion.
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What if.
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The only thing standing between you and the life you were born to live was the story you keep telling yourself.
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Today's guest knows that when you shift your mindset set, you shift your entire reality.
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It is an absolute honor and a privilege to introduce Suzanne Peltekian to our show today.
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Suzanne is a global speaker mindset.
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Peak performance and manifestation coach, a true game changer who has spent nearly a decade helping people all over the world remember the truth of who they are.
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Limitless, divine, powerful, beyond measure.
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Through her signature mind gym approach, Suzanne guides clients to overcome their biggest obstacle.
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Themselves so that they can unleash potential in every area of life.
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Her work has touched millions, igniting transformations that ripple.
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Way further than beyond just the surface.
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Suzanne, it is so awesome to have you on our show today.
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Thank you for being with us,
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Denise.
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It's my deepest joy and such a privilege to be here with you.
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Thank you for having me, and thank you for.
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Incredibly magical work that you do.
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You're beyond magical.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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I always love to just begin because a, a lot of our listeners may not know your story, so could you give us the Kohls notes version of your story, and how did you get to being into this arena?
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Transformation, mindset, manifestation, all the good stuff.
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I love this question.
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It never gets boring, although it's never about me.
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I'll make it a Kohl's note of Kohl's notes, just, uh, so that we can dive deeper.
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Um, this is all I've ever wanted to do, Denise, uh, from childhood.
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Of course, I didn't know what a coach was, but I wanted to get on the stages and rah rah people and motivate them to live their best lives and inspire them to live their best lives.
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Been a lover of humanity ever since I can remember.
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I'm getting goosebumps as you say that, and I just loved meeting you from day zero, as I said off, uh, off the recording.
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So I wanna go on the record to say it, and, uh, I never believed in myself like so many of us and everything that you mentioned there in my bio, you make me look so good that everything that I get to teach right now.
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Ironically, I've, I've struggled with most of it, if not all of it.
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So, um, mainly belief of self.
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Never had it.
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Uh, so I went from job to job, from business to business until I finally realized my own divinity.
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And, uh, I'm so freaking privileged and honored that I get to, to touch our human race through your brilliant podcast and other ways to just spread the love.
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Yeah.
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You know, wake people up to who they truly are.
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This universe is God's highest form of creation, A spark of divinity, truly.
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So thanks for mentioning that.
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Yes, that's, that's the Kohl's note.
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Love it.
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Yes.
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And you know what, what you just shared I think is.
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Absolutely gold in that it is something that has been deep within you since childhood.
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And I find that as, um, I'm, I don't know tons about human design, but I do know that I am a reflect.
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So what I do is I support people to see what is really deep, deep, deep within them.
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That has been there since the beginning of time, as it were.
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And so what you just shared, how you as a child had that.
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In you.
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It never left.
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It was all part of your cell development, and isn't it beautiful how it's come not only full circle, but now the ripple effect is magnified like millions.
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You are impacting.
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As you billions, I hope soon
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billions is my, my life's work.
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This is what I really want to do.
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So, so thank you for having me and you know, allowing me the privilege to share my, it's my privilege and my gift and my responsibility truly.
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Yeah.
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Oh,
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and I, I love that too.
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We talked before we jumped on to record about the responsibility piece, and I think you and I take that.
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Very, very seriously and to heart.
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And so it's not about where can we go with this?
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It's about whom can we support through our belief system.
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Right.
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Service is life.
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There's nothing beyond that.
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You realize, you know, you take the time, you go to the beach, how many days can you lie there, just, you know, twiddling your thumbs and it's beautiful and it's great and I don't want to diminish it In our life, of course, our purpose is to, the only thing we can really take with us, Denise, is who we've become.
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And that's the only thing that we can leave behind.
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There's nothing else.
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We can't take any of our loved ones, any of the money, any of anything.
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And so that is my goal is to.
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Die empty, having become the most magnificent version of myself, and then having touched as many lives as possible, God willing, in the billions, um, that their conscious awareness is, is, is, you know, raised so that they can get to live the freedom that is our divine birthright.
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In my humble opinion.
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Yes.
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I love that.
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That's ama amazing, but not surprising based on everything that you bring to the table and more, um, you talk about people's potential and divine birthright.
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Yeah.
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Um.
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Mind, Jim, I mentioned it in the beginning of my intro.
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For the woman who is ready to possibly live their own quantum life, yeah.
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Let's say, yeah.
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What would be a foundational truth that you think that they must embody before anything else can expand for them?
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Is there anything?
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Yes.
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Yes.
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Well, I love this question, and Denise, I would say.
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Everyone, everyone is ready.
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Even though we don't think we are ready, we're ready in, in, in a sense that we know, like our work.
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I used to think that I'm teaching you something.
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I'm not teaching you anything.
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You know, most of what I teach because it will resonate with the essence of who you are.
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Like, I'm getting goosebumps as I say this, and I've said it how many times?
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A gazillion times.
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It never gets old, right?
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So step number one with, with.
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Anything before we embody is to know what we want.
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So I shared in my bio and I made, uh, excuse me in my, um, why I chose this career path is because this is what I want to do, but I didn't, uh, share.
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The other part is because I'm going to share it right now, is what, um, I thought I wanted to do was to rah rah people.
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And Zig Ziglar has said, you can rah rah people, but motivation doesn't like.
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Just, it doesn't last just like bathing.
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Gotta do it daily.
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So there is, because of my extremely naturally bubbly and loud personality and
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Yep.
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Desire to, you know, transform lives and to be this, um, humbled servant and guide on planet Earth in the 3D is, uh, there is an aspect of that in what I do in the mind gyms.
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Inspirational, motivational, but what I got from one of my mentors, Bob Proctor, who passed away, he was in the movie The Secret, right?
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He's Canadian and he Right.
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Three years ago he passed away.
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When I got what I got from him, that's the message I wanna.
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Uh, like, make sure everyone in the world gets, and that's what I'm going to share right now is he said, the only prerequisite to having it all is knowing what we want.
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And there's a big caveat.
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We don't get what we want.
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We get who we're being.
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And I'm like, what?
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How many of us grew up thinking that really, I just need to know what I want?
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So I would invite any of the precious, um, souls listening in is to, the first step is to write your vision.
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And make it juicy.
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And then just when you think it's, it's, it's super juicy.
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Make it the juiciest you can.
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All we're doing is we're co-authoring our life, Denise, taking pen to paper and literally writing down, and I can simplify it if you'd like.
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And, uh, if you have more questions about it is, um, write down.
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A couple of pages of what your vision is about your life.
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Mm-hmm.
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From the time you wake up to the time you go to sleep, how do you wanna feel?
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Who do you wanna impact?
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What contribution do you wanna make?
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What's your job?
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If you have a job, what are your businesses, if you'd like businesses, what um, legacy are you leaving behind your travels, your toys, everything.
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Everything right?
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And then.
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That's part one.
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That's knowing what we want.
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We don't get that.
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Now, step two is the self-image.
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That's the biggest thing.
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That's the missing link.
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In in, in the secret.
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It wasn't mentioned.
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It was like, just sit there and it'll come.
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Think about it.
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Yes, we do become what we think about predominantly, and step one is knowing what we want, crystal clarity.
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So I would invite whether you're thriving in your life or you've just tuned in and you're literally.
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Underground in, in suffering and pain because it really requires a lot to be a human being.
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We discuss it a little bit before you hit record, and I wanna be upfront about that.
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And life will become more and more magic and miracles, uh uh, every single day once we do that work.
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So the first step is to know what we want.
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Put it on paper.
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The second step is, well, what version of meat?
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Who already exists, by the way, not right.
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We're not becoming a different person.
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I call all of my precious, beloved clients.
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They're my peak performers.
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They're like my kitty poos.
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I call them, um, David, and that's Michelangelo's David.
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Um, right.
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Whether you're a man or a woman, we can put DaVita there.
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Right?
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So it's, you are Michaelangelo and you are David in that all we're doing is.
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Chipping away the layers of the lies of the shackles, of the programming, the conditioning, a whole, that is not true, right?
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So that you can unleash into the version, and that is you write a short paragraph on your, uh, of, of your self image.
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So the self-image is also known as.
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Self-concept or identity for whoever's listening in.
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And it can be a short paragraph of I am statements of who you truly are not.
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Mm-hmm.
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The lie that they told us we are.
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Right.
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And then through repetition of both the subconscious programming.
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Things will, even if we don't do it like I did, hadn't written a vision because I didn't know until I had met my mentor.
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But there one thing led to the other.
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It was right before COVID.
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I made one powerful decision to retire from real estate.
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I was a realtor in Toronto at the time, and the number one re max Realty that happens to be a Canadian.
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Toronto Real filled up all of my coaching spots during COVID.
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So that is the power of knowing what you want.
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So that is what I would invite if that answers that first bit of, yeah,
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yeah, yeah.
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Do you find that when people do this work, so they make the list, they imagine, they see the imagery.
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Do they block themselves from receiving?
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She's shaking her head yes.
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For those of you who are not watching through the YouTube channel and listening on the podcast, of course she closed her eyes, smiled and shook her head.
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Yes.
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Because I think you've talked about it.
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We're conditioned, we're trained, we are, um, throughout our lifespan.
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Here's your goal.
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It's not your goal.
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Here's the goal.
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Everybody goes to meet and we ha how do then we actually start to receive because we don't see it right away, or we don't feel it right away.
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Yeah.
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Without being in coaching.
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You mean like someone listening?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Then it would be the one word that I, I shared, um, during my masterclass this week, and I shared it with my, my groups.
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My Daily Mind gym is Yeah, repetition now.
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My ego.
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All it's interested in, by the way.
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Eating, drinking, sleeping, eating, drinking, partying.
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I don't drink anymore, by the way.
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Uh,
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yeah.
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Alcohol.
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That is, but, but that's all it's truly interested in, like my humanity.
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And when we get, it's like pinch me.
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We have an, we have another day that we get to make a contribution to jump on the court and swing full out and be of service to our mankind.
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It's through repetition.
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So our work, uh, Denise, whether someone isn't coaching or not, would be then to repeat, just.
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The same way we learned how to walk.
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We never tell our kid, Hey, it took you a bit too long, or you fell a couple of times.
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Too many, right?
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We would never dare.
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Right?
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Is same way we wrote.
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Let's say we learned how to ride the bike when we were five.
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We'd be 105.
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We're still gonna know how because of the subconscious programming, which we learned through repetition.
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Exact same way we get to the office.
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If, if anyone listening in is still drives to the office.
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Right.
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Or their neighborhood, Starbucks or cafe.
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Right.
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Our work is through repeating this and I'll give some hacks, if that's okay, on how they can repeat it.
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Yeah,
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absolutely.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Through, through repeating their vision and self-image.
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That's it.
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It has to come to pass it.
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Uh, this is God, and I use the word by the way, interchangeably with
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Sure.
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Universe, infinite intelligence, higher power, whatever, so that no one is stopped, whatever your belief is, right?
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Yeah.
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And so if God put that desire in us.
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It's our job to bring it to pass.
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So he planted the seed and it's our job now to become that individual and the becoming truly isn't becoming anyone.